I grew up around builders, problem-solvers, and people who weren’t afraid to create their own path. They made choices that looked bold from the outside — but to them, it was simply how you built a life that felt honest. No one handed me a roadmap for that. I had to learn by paying attention, trying, failing, adjusting, and trying again.

For a long stretch, I lived on instinct and effort — chasing what I thought I “should” do, taking on roles that didn’t fit, and hoping I’d eventually land where I was meant to be. What I now call the “spaghetti-on-the-wall” phase taught me something I didn’t expect:

Direction isn’t something you find. It’s something you choose.

Once I realized that, things changed. I stopped reacting. I started living with intention. I began making decisions that matched who I was — not who the world expected me to be.

That’s the work I bring to men today.

I’ve met countless men who are carrying more weight than they talk about, running harder than they want to admit, or drifting in a life that doesn’t feel like theirs anymore. They’re solid, capable, and committed — but something inside them knows it’s time for a different version of themselves. Not a new identity… just a more aligned one.

And the truth is:

you don’t need to start over — you need to work with what’s already there.

Your strengths.

Your experience.

Your values.

Your instincts.

That’s where identity is forged.

Legacy, to me, isn’t what you leave behind someday — it’s how you show up right now. It’s the impact you make through your presence, your choices, and the way you carry yourself in the world. That’s what people remember. That’s what changes the room. That’s what creates the ripple.

Through Legacy of Growth, I coach men at crossroads — the point where who they’ve been and who they’re becoming no longer match. My work brings together decades of experience in coaching, NLP training, supervision, conflict resolution, leadership, and my own reinvention story.

Men tell me they choose this space because they can be honest here — challenged with heart, understood without judgment, and supported without being coddled.

Whether we’re working one-on-one, in groups, or through leadership and communication training, everything I offer has one purpose:

to help you bring forward what’s solid, tune what’s out of sync, and rebuild the next version of yourself with insight, integrity, and intention.

Life doesn’t have to stay on default.

And you don’t have to figure it out alone.

I’m here to help you see what’s possible, clear what’s in the way, and forge the version of yourself you’re ready to grow into.